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Listening to the Heart: A Contemplative Journey to Engaged Buddhism

✍️ Kittisaro, Thanissara
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📚 WHAT THE BOOK IS ABOUT

This profound work by Kittisaro and Thanissara offers a deeply personal exploration of Buddhist awakening. Drawing from their unique shared history as former monastics and now a married couple, they weave together candid narratives of spiritual struggle and breakthrough. The book illuminates how the inner practice of meditation can evolve into a broader commitment to compassionate action. It presents a vision of enlightenment not as an isolated achievement, but as a journey culminating in profound intimacy with all existence and dedicated service to the world.

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“From Oxford to Thailand to South Africa, from monastery to frontline work in the crying heart of Zulu country, Thanissara and Kittisaro share their amazing journey. Written with honesty, courage, and deep wisdom, Listening to the Heart shows how to free the mind and open the heart. Even more, the deep caring and love that permeate the pages inspire the reader to want to make a difference in the world--and the book provides the map to do it. Highly recommended.”
— James Baraz
“Genuine and insightful, Listening to the Heart is both a memoir and a clear guide to authentic practice. Kittisaro and Thanissara unfold the layers of their experience to share their understanding, from deep inner processes to vital social and relational aspects of living a good life.”
— Sharon Salzberg
“I'm not sure there is anyone who can strip away our naive illusions about the spiritual life as deftly and elegantly as Thanissara and Kittisaro. As we witness their sacred pilgrimage unfolding, we are awakened to the timeless noble truths of our precious human condition and set free.”
— Sharda Rogell
🏛 North Atlantic Books 📅 2014 📖 296 pages 📔 Paperback ISBN: 9781583948392
Fun Fact
Kittisaro and Thanissara have crafted a rare gem, blending profound Buddhist wisdom with raw, honest personal narrative. It excels in making abstract concepts like non-duality tangible through their lived experience, inspiring readers to integrate practice with service. While those seeking a strictly academic treatise might find the personal stories extensive, this book is an invaluable guide for anyone yearning to deepen their spiritual path and contribute meaningfully to the world, solidifying its place in contemporary Engaged Buddhist literature.

📝 Description: Listening to the Heart: A Contemplative Journey to Engaged Buddhism

A husband and wife share stories of struggle and triumph along the path of the Buddha, distilling his most essential teachings in this guide that is "luminous in clarity and depth" (Tara Brach, author of Radical Acceptance) Husband and wife Kittisaro and Thanissara take turns co-authoring chapters in this deeply personal dharma book exploring the inner practice of meditation in support of awakening. Within the context of the lives of the authors, both monastics in their youth, awakening unfolds as a multifaceted process following the archetypal journey of the hero(ine). Traveling from innocence to disillusionment through the fields of trials and despair that lead to maturity, and ultimately to inspiration and a blessed life, Listening to the Heart tells the story of two unconventional individuals who have together embraced spirituality as the keystone of their lives. At the heart of the book, through teachings on the nondual nature of reality, we enter the "intimacy with all things" as revealed in core Buddhist texts. Without ending at the goal of personal freedom, Thanissara and Kittisaro encourage us to go beyond the experience of inner peace to embodying wisdom in acts of service within the world. With a realistic appraisal of our current global crisis in which sustainability is threatened by catastrophic climate change, the authors encourage a preparedness that enables a mindful balance of equanimity and passionate engagement whatever the outcome of our global evolutionary journey. The guiding refuge for this journey is the Buddha, the historical teacher and--most profoundly--that immediate and direct pure awareness, which we all can access. The book also draws on teachings and stories of Buddhist masters who are fearless, funny, and challenging. Eventually, we are led into the Mary-like presence of the goddess of mercy, Kuan Yin who, as a great archetype within Buddhist cosmology, reveals the deepest mystery of our own hearts and our capacity for merciful and compassionate response. As the inner process of awakening unfolds, it transforms seekers and their lives, as modeled by the authors. It both heals the personal self in its journey through its wounds and shadows, and yet at the same time dissolves identification with the self. The book then ends by returning to the simplicity of the authors' primary teacher, Ajahn Chah, with his encouragement to "Be the Dharma."

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Kittisaro and Thanissara deliver a sincere narrative that demystifies the path to awakening through their unique lens as a married couple of former monastics. The text succeeds in showing how personal struggle can transform into global compassion. However, readers seeking rigid doctrinal instruction or purely academic analysis may find the personal anecdotes too informal or lacking in scholarly rigor. Those preferring detached, theoretical philosophy over emotional vulnerability might feel alienated by the intimate tone. It is not for those who view spirituality as a strictly intellectual pursuit devoid of relational context.
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📖 Why choose it

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Why this book is worth reading

Readers seeking a grounded, authentic approach to spirituality will find profound value in this intimate exploration. It is ideal for those who feel disconnected from rigid dogma but crave depth, offering a path where meditation directly fuels compassionate action. Former monastics or anyone curious about the transition from secluded practice to married life will appreciate the candid vulnerability. The book serves as a gentle guide for individuals desiring to integrate inner peace with outer service, proving that enlightenment is not an escape from reality but a deeper immersion into it through shared human experience.

⭐ Reader reviews

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⭐ Esoterica editorial review Editorial rating 4.6/5
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If you're seeking a path that bridges personal spiritual growth with active compassion, and resonate with deeply personal narratives, this book is for you. It offers profound insights for both seasoned practitioners and those curious about Buddhism's relevance in a complex world.

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Esoterica Books editorial team

Kittisaro and Thanissara deliver a sincere narrative that demystifies the path to awakening through their unique lens as a married couple of former monastics. The text succeeds in showing how personal struggle can transform into global compassion. However, readers seeking rigid doctrinal instruction or purely academic analysis may find the personal anecdotes too informal or lacking in scholarly rigor. Those preferring detached, theoretical philosophy over emotional vulnerability might feel alienated by the intimate tone. It is not for those who view spirituality as a strictly intellectual pursuit devoid of relational context.

❓ Frequently asked questions

Its distinctive feature is the dual authorial voice from a married couple, both former monastics, sharing their intertwined and individual spiritual journeys. This offers a rare, intimate perspective on awakening through shared experience and diverse challenges.
While it delves into advanced concepts like non-duality, the personal storytelling and clear articulation of core principles make it accessible. Beginners will find inspiration in the journey, and experienced practitioners will appreciate its depth and contemporary relevance.

📖 Who should read this

If you're seeking a path that bridges personal spiritual growth with active compassion, and resonate with deeply personal narratives, this book is for you. It offers profound insights for both seasoned practitioners and those curious about Buddhism's relevance in a complex world.

🎯 Key themes and symbolism

Engaged Buddhist Practice

The authors delve into the concept of Engaged Buddhism, demonstrating how personal spiritual development naturally extends beyond individual peace. They advocate for a path where inner wisdom is actively applied in the world, transforming personal liberation into compassionate service and addressing collective suffering, moving spiritual practice from the cushion to daily life.

The Spiritual Hero's Journey

Through alternating chapters, Kittisaro and Thanissara chronicle their individual and shared spiritual odysseys. They present their lives as an archetypal quest, detailing moments of youthful idealism, profound disillusionment, challenging trials, and eventual integration of wisdom. This narrative arc illustrates the multifaceted process of awakening through lived experience.

Intimacy & Non-Dual Reality

Central to their teaching is the exploration of non-dual consciousness, guiding readers toward a profound sense of interconnectedness. The book emphasizes moving beyond perceived separation to experience an 'intimacy with all things,' revealing how this deeper understanding of reality fosters genuine compassion and allows for a more integrated and meaningful existence.

📜 Historical context

Rooted in the Theravada tradition, this work expands upon classical Buddhist teachings by embracing the modern movement of Engaged Buddhism. It places emphasis on the integration of contemplative practice with social action, a development that gained prominence in the 20th century. The authors' unique journey from monasticism to partnership reflects a contemporary adaptation of ancient wisdom.

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Dharma
Non-dual
Engaged Buddhism

📔 Questions to reflect on

  1. Reflect on a personal struggle you've faced. How might viewing it as part of an 'archetypal journey' shift your understanding of its purpose or meaning?
  2. Consider an area where you feel disconnected from the world. How might cultivating 'intimacy with all things' through mindful awareness change your perception and actions?
  3. What does 'engaged spirituality' mean to you personally? How can your inner practice translate into acts of service or compassionate engagement in your community?

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